Said my 6-yo, with his mouth full of fresh-baked banana bread: "You know what moms are for?"
Said me: "What?"
He: "Baking .... and loving."
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Emma Update ...
Emma is doing remarkably well. So much so that, today they will take her of the CPAP and place her on nasal cannula Vapotherm. My research indicates this is a bit more support respiratory-wise than nasal cannula alone. It is hard to be receiving all this information via my thrice daily phone calls, and then piecing it together myself with research on the internet. However, I now have pneumonia, and still cannot go to see her.
Her feedings continue to be increased daily. She is currently receiving more than half her daily requirements of nutrition through formula. The nurses hope to have her begin bottle feedings next week.
I realize how stilted this post is. I am finding it hard to share the details of Emma at this point. It is such a difficult time, as I am always holding my breath, waiting for the phone to ring with news of a set-back. Each day, as she continues to improve, I rejoice with the news. But I find myself increasingly impatient for her to be home.
Her feedings continue to be increased daily. She is currently receiving more than half her daily requirements of nutrition through formula. The nurses hope to have her begin bottle feedings next week.
I realize how stilted this post is. I am finding it hard to share the details of Emma at this point. It is such a difficult time, as I am always holding my breath, waiting for the phone to ring with news of a set-back. Each day, as she continues to improve, I rejoice with the news. But I find myself increasingly impatient for her to be home.
Thursday, August 13, 2009
Baby Steps ...
Emma was extubated today. So she is off the ventilator and on CPAP. My research leads me to believe this is a temporary measure as they continue to monitor her and lead her towards nasal cannula. The doctors discontinued all antibiotics, and have weaned her off the sedative. She is making real progress. I received my first truly positive report in two months from one of the doctors yesterday. It took me quite by surprise, as just last week this same doctor told me they would not consent to a transfer for Emma because she was still so sick.
It is hard to get too excited - too much wiggle room for a relapse. Surgery still looms as a possibility, as her intestines continue to show an area of concern. I have not seen her for so long (two weeks) due to a cold that just will not loosen its grip on me. Too many antibiotics, plus the stress of the past three months have taken their toll on my health. I need to get myself together, I need to get stronger because when this child comes home she will need me.
It is hard to get too excited - too much wiggle room for a relapse. Surgery still looms as a possibility, as her intestines continue to show an area of concern. I have not seen her for so long (two weeks) due to a cold that just will not loosen its grip on me. Too many antibiotics, plus the stress of the past three months have taken their toll on my health. I need to get myself together, I need to get stronger because when this child comes home she will need me.
Wednesday, August 12, 2009
Friday, August 7, 2009
Saving My Sanity ...
Our lives have been in such upheaval for the past few months. The uncertainty surrounding Emma has made such commonplace activities as food shopping a huge undertaking - when is it "safe" to go, dare I chance missing a phone call from the hospital, dare I spend money on groceries that I may not be here to prepare for the children. The one thing that has kept all of us "sane", I believe, is our schooling.
We have completed week #9 of our Summer Term. I have changed some things that did not work, added some things that might make the whole year a bit more fun. Monday through Friday, we know that we will get up, get ready for a school day, and learn. There have been interruptions - an unexpected break taken for me to be near Emma. But in all reality, it is impossible for me to be near her each day while she is in Philadelphia - practical issues like travel expenses and time spent in traffic need to be taken into consideration. Plus, the children are not allowed to accompany me, so there is child care to consider. While my heart desires to be near the most critically ill member of my family all the time, it is just not possible. So off to school we go.
Today, we began our foray into the world of classical music. We have treaded into this water before - well, the twins and I have. But now we are using the guide from Beautiful Feet Books, and it looks like an interesting and fun study. There are so many wonderful resources out there - CDs, books, videos. But this guide will provide me with the structure I need to pull it all together. It will be easier to schedule all the extras when I have the skeleton of our study in front of me. This morning, we made our cover pages, illustrated The Ride of the Valkyries, and studied a bit about what made the Baroque Period The Baroque Period.
We used to have Fine Arts Friday, and I think I will try to implement that once again. It lends an ease to transitioning into the weekend, and ends the week on a light note - a reward for the hard academic toil of the previous four days!
Some people have remarked, "You're not actually doing school during this time, are you?" My answer is a simple, "Yes". School for us is as routine as brushing our teeth. It is us, it is our norm, it is part of our life together. Yesterday, the children put on a play for me. Their dialogue was punctuated with old English and Latin phrases, and their use of accents is simply charming. It was imaginative, and required the cooperation of a 6 year-old, who is not real big on conformity. It served as a reminder to me of how our non-traditional ways have so many rewards. When they are grown, I hope my children will be best friends with one another, and recall fondly the numerous plays, skits, and anecdotes of their academic years. Of course there are moments of tears - math is not a favorite subject of the twins, and Latin last week only required one paragraph of translation while this week it morphed into four paragraphs! Egads!! However, overall, I would not trade this time of family bonding for a schedule of buses to catch, lunches needing to be bagged and permission slips to be signed for anything.
We have completed week #9 of our Summer Term. I have changed some things that did not work, added some things that might make the whole year a bit more fun. Monday through Friday, we know that we will get up, get ready for a school day, and learn. There have been interruptions - an unexpected break taken for me to be near Emma. But in all reality, it is impossible for me to be near her each day while she is in Philadelphia - practical issues like travel expenses and time spent in traffic need to be taken into consideration. Plus, the children are not allowed to accompany me, so there is child care to consider. While my heart desires to be near the most critically ill member of my family all the time, it is just not possible. So off to school we go.
Today, we began our foray into the world of classical music. We have treaded into this water before - well, the twins and I have. But now we are using the guide from Beautiful Feet Books, and it looks like an interesting and fun study. There are so many wonderful resources out there - CDs, books, videos. But this guide will provide me with the structure I need to pull it all together. It will be easier to schedule all the extras when I have the skeleton of our study in front of me. This morning, we made our cover pages, illustrated The Ride of the Valkyries, and studied a bit about what made the Baroque Period The Baroque Period.
We used to have Fine Arts Friday, and I think I will try to implement that once again. It lends an ease to transitioning into the weekend, and ends the week on a light note - a reward for the hard academic toil of the previous four days!
Some people have remarked, "You're not actually doing school during this time, are you?" My answer is a simple, "Yes". School for us is as routine as brushing our teeth. It is us, it is our norm, it is part of our life together. Yesterday, the children put on a play for me. Their dialogue was punctuated with old English and Latin phrases, and their use of accents is simply charming. It was imaginative, and required the cooperation of a 6 year-old, who is not real big on conformity. It served as a reminder to me of how our non-traditional ways have so many rewards. When they are grown, I hope my children will be best friends with one another, and recall fondly the numerous plays, skits, and anecdotes of their academic years. Of course there are moments of tears - math is not a favorite subject of the twins, and Latin last week only required one paragraph of translation while this week it morphed into four paragraphs! Egads!! However, overall, I would not trade this time of family bonding for a schedule of buses to catch, lunches needing to be bagged and permission slips to be signed for anything.
Tuesday, August 4, 2009
My Little "Pooh" ...
Emma pooped! This is a very good thing. Four weeks ago today, her bowels stopped working. And today, she pooped. While they are analyzing the stool for any remnants of infection or blood, I will still celebrate the victory. Not exactly something you can put in her baby book (next to the first clipping of her hair), but still ....
Thursday, July 30, 2009
Fascinating ...
http://www.immunizenc.com/images/PDFs/06%2001%202009%20Alternative%20Schedule%20Memo.pdf
In researching an alternative vaccination schedule, I turned up this gem - a note to physicians in North Carolina stipulating that, if they do not adhere to the guidelines set forth by this particular board, despite parental objections, they may be refused access to state supplies of vaccinations. Now if that scenario doesn't scare you, I just don't understand.
{The alternative vaccination schedule is one proposed by Dr. Sears, and is actually an attempt to mitigate any damages that vaccines MIGHT present to the developing infant. It seems like a wonderful compromise between the known and the unknown regarding vaccines - keep the good they do and reduce the risk to the still-developing child, especially during times when they are most vulnerable.)
In researching an alternative vaccination schedule, I turned up this gem - a note to physicians in North Carolina stipulating that, if they do not adhere to the guidelines set forth by this particular board, despite parental objections, they may be refused access to state supplies of vaccinations. Now if that scenario doesn't scare you, I just don't understand.
{The alternative vaccination schedule is one proposed by Dr. Sears, and is actually an attempt to mitigate any damages that vaccines MIGHT present to the developing infant. It seems like a wonderful compromise between the known and the unknown regarding vaccines - keep the good they do and reduce the risk to the still-developing child, especially during times when they are most vulnerable.)
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